Well from the looks of things, it is clear that writing a blog post seems to be one of the hardest things to do as of late. This used to be a place I longed to be in order to update on Getty’s health, her successes, her journey, and everything in between. She turned 11 years old this past March and I just want time to stand still long enough to take in all of the incredible milestones she has achieved and continues to strive towards. Her ability to learn and enrich herself in her own way is really one of the most incredible aspects of being her mom. I wish everyone could take a little bit of time out of their day, grab a cup of coffee, and hang out with her while she is on her eye-gaze computer. Her eyes bounce around on the screen in ways I don’t think my eyes could have ever done, even when they worked well. 🙂
Getty can move around on the computer in the same way most of us move our mouse. Her pinpointed ability to navigate the internet and to find anything she finds interesting is pretty astonishing. It seems the moment I am just blow away I think to myself, “Yes, of course she has taught herself to navigate the internet completely by herself.” Getty has always figured out a way to strive in her own way. I think what I appreciate most about her personality and will is that she never waits for others to help her. She just figures it out.
There is a level of intelligence that I feel like most able bodied people might never understand or even attain. I don’t know, but what I do know is that Getty continues to learn, trouble-shoot, and strive in her own way.
It made me think about how she is going into the 6th grade and how the level of academic rigor continues to increase and how will she internally modify her world to find her own path? She will now have six different teachers with six different classrooms of peers. How will she connect with with her studies and also with her peers and teachers? The simple answer is, “she just will.” Getty in her own way finds ways to connect through the screen of a telepresence robot. Since pre-school, Getty has been going to school remotely from home. What most kids experienced through this pandemic with regards to distance learning, has always been Getty’s mode of attaining her education. I remember the moment all of her peers and teachers moved to remote learning. There were two aspects I thought of while this transition was happening. I thought, “Why did it have to take a pandemic for others to realize and relate to Getty’s way of receiving her education.” I mean sometimes in life in order to relate, you kind of have to take a similar route in order to really get it.
- Students are staying home to prevent getting sick. (Check)
- Remote learning has its ups and downs. (Check)
- Hand washing and basic hygiene precautions are always a good thing. (Check)
- Being more aware of how you may affect others (verbally, physically, emotionally) are all valid concerns that take care and time. (Check)
I watched throughout the past year how Getty’s peers were relating to her on levels I don’t think I was even ready for. I heard kids say: “Getty I don’t want to get sick either and I think I understand why you stay home.” “Getty I wash my hands all the time now and maybe when we go back to school you can come see us because we won’t be grimmy.” “Getty, I like seeing your face closer now that we are on Zoom. I miss school, but I like that your face is like right there and I can see you roll your eyes.”
I would like to believe that after this duration of lockdown is complete and kids go back to school, they will continue to remember and relate to Getty on the levels they all created when everyone was remote. I mean, what a beautiful and powerful skill to acquire at such a young age. Relating and learning empathy are life-long attributes that all people can embrace.
Luckily and thankfully, Getty has been fortunate to be enrolled in a school that has truly embraced her from day one. Sure, there have been bumps along the way, but as her mom, and a former educator, her school gets it to the best of their ability. We have all learned throughout the years of how to make the bridge between virtual and physical work. Getty has been truly blessed with a staff and peers who continue to embrace her and push her to new heights.
I am also aware that while her education and learning community has been flexible, empowering, and kind, I am fully aware that while I would love to control her entire environment, people can sometimes not be kind or rather, just make horrible decisions based on what they perceive. As much as I would like to list the ways in which Getty has been treated in the general public (mama bear would like to expose the blaring ways people are mean and pathetic but I will refrain and try and be an adult). Instead I would like to offer successful suggestions. I think I gear this towards adults. I say that because I like to offer children a wide range of room for learning. Kids mirror the behavior they see from adults, right? I think that is something we can all agree upon. So with that lens, here is a great way to address her and perhaps other awesome individuals that may not be wrapped in the same preferred societal plastic wrapping.
How are you?
My name is ______, what is yours?
Oh you have beautiful eyes!
Isn’t today awesome? I hope you have a great day!
I love that song you are listening to, it’s one of my favorites.
Girl, that dress you are wearing, amazing!
Cool shoes, I wish I had some of those, but my feet are too big.
(All great conversation starters that she has experienced from adults.)
Moments in the public are few and far between. A couple reasons: 1) Germs/illness 2) Just getting out of the house logistics and energy is enough to remain home (equipment, supplies, worst case scenarios, transportation, weather, etc.) 3) Lack of accessibility and accommodation (as much as I am thankful for ADA, it doesn’t ensure safety, ease, or accessibility for Getty)
So having said all of that, when we are out and she is addressed in some way in the community, the moment Getty is seen and not assumed, usually becomes one of the best experiences. If I could ask the community at large for one thing it would be to ask for visibility. Please don’t allow for devices, how she lays flat instead of running, how she may not visibly/physically respond in the way most might, become a deterrent from just saying hello. A hello is everything and yet one of the most simple gestures of love.
And listen, we all make mistakes, I make plenty of them, and I know that before having Getty, I found myself locked into societal boxes that dictated how to react or respond to individuals who may have presented like Getty. There is a mystery and perhaps even a suffocating response to not wanting to say the wrong thing or offend. But what I have learned from Getty and so many other beautiful children and adults is that……..it isn’t about me. Never was. It has always been about recognizing everyone as worthy and deserving love. So to the adults in the room, my hope is that while we learn and grow, you also teach your children to move through this world with the notion that everyone is deserving EQUALLY of love. And in order to teach that, you need to demonstrate on the regular. AND making mistakes happens, and they will continue to happen, and that is okay.
I met a mother and her son a long time ago who literally was struggling to talk to me while they both starred at Getty the entire time. It was actually very off-putting, and then I thought, maybe she just needed a nudge. So I started with, “Hey kiddo, have you met Getty yet?” His smile blossomed immediately and he quickly told her his name and showed her all of the toys he had in his hand. For the next ten minutes he consumed her world with his toys and she was mesmerized. The mom, for whatever reason still starring, finally snapped out of it and mouthed “thank you”. I smiled and mouthed, “It’s not about you,” and she immediately shook her head and mouthed, “Ugh I know.” Getty and that sweet boy are still friends and I am happy to say that the mom has made a complete recovery. 🙂 I think in so many ways, we all just need a nudge.
I will try my best to post more. Ugh, it’s hard. Getty goes a mile a minute and keeping up with her has aged me considerably. But know she is doing awesomely and she is becoming a bigger version of herself with the same amount of sass she always had.
I will get straight to the point. Let’s get straight to announcing our 12 Reasons to Celebrate recipients.
Before the announcement, I just want to thank every single donor who allows us, Getty Owl Foundation to be able to support so many SMA families. It has been an absolute joy to be a part of such an amazing community. It is truly an honor to be able to give back to so many families who have offered support, love, knowledge, and simply comfort to not only our family, but to so many others.
After using random.org to gather 12 names, here are the selected recipients.
Happy Holidays, stay healthy, stay safe, and hug all those around you!
It is that time of the year when Getty Owl Foundation can truly celebrate our efforts to support as many SMA families as we can.
I know I don’t have to say this year has been difficult. We collectively have all been effected by this pandemic. It is hitting us all in ways we never saw coming. Being away from grandparents, always being on guard to withstand COVID-19, and perhaps feeling the strain of economic uncertainty. It hurts, we are tired, and with hope, a new day is coming around the bend. Hang in there, we can do this!
For the past five years we have been able to gift Apple iPads to over 50 SMA kids! We are so thankful to have filled a stocking or two with some awesome tech that can truly open doors for our kids.
This year we are so thankful to be able to continue our efforts to support SMA families. We literally have 12 Reasons to Celebrate!
We will be having a giveaway for the holidays. SMA families, we hope you can join us!
This year we will be gifting the following items to 12 SMA kids:
Each gift box will include:
-(1) iPad mini
-(1) Otterbox iPad holder
-(1) $50 Apple Gift Card
How to enter:
-Email us at email@example.com with the following information:
-Your child’s name
-Attach a picture
DEADLINE FOR ENTRIES: DECEMBER 11th
GIVEAWAY RECIPIENTS ANNOUNCED: DECEMBER 12th
- As with all giveaways, each gift box will be gifted to individuals with SMA. Our Getty Owl Foundation only supports those with a diagnosis of SMA.
I love days like this! Giveaways are so fun and they fill my cup every single time. I would like to again thank, Henderson Construction Fabrics Inc., Dutch Bros. Coffee, and The Hope and Light Foundation for their incredibly generous donations. I would also like to thank everyone who has helped donate in this past year. Getty Owl Foundation would not exist without the confidence of donors, who are willing to give us a chance to make a difference. Thank you so very much.
Thank you to all of the families who entered the giveaway. I wish we could offer the prizes to all who enter, believe me are getting there, but for now for those who were not randomly selected, PLEASE come back next year, your chances are always good!
Alright here we go!
Recipients of the Powerlink 4 & $50 gift card
Recipients of an iPad & $25 apple gift card
Happy Holidays to everyone and have a terrific New Year!
Getty Owl Foundation’s annual giveaway has always been a time for us, as a foundation to celebrate. We are so fortunate to be able to support the SMA community in ways that we know make a difference. It is so humbling when we get to work with local and national businesses, foundations, and families. Raising funds is hard work and making connections is also a time consuming feat. We love it, we are passionate about it, and it has truly been a rewarding experience.
I am here to announce that our giveaway has been “upped”. Thanks to The Hope and Light Foundation and their continued commitment to the SMA community, we now have the ability to give more.
18+ Reasons to Celebrate the Holidays Details:
We will NOW be giving away (18) 7th generation iPads. In addition to the iPad, the giveaway will include a iPad case. We are also adding a $25 apple gift card.
We will also be giving away (8) AbleNet Powerlink 4. We will also be adding a $50 visa gift card to put towards a switch to access the Powerlink 4.
DETAILS FOR ENTIRES STILL APPLY. READ BELOW FOR INSTRUCTIONS!
Well the holidays are seriously upon us and I wanted to get our Getty Owl Foundation’s Giveaway, underway before it got crazy busy. Before I roll it out I wanted to take a second and mention how proud I am of our foundation’s, almost 10 year commitment to our SMA community. To date, we have gifted over 60 iPads to our community. I am normally not very comfortable touting such a statistic, but man, I am so proud of this!
Technology is the key to bridging the gap between communication, education and socialization. Getty has been positively reaping the benefits of technology since she was just months old. We are just so thankful to have a platform to support our community.
This year is no different AND we will be adding a terrific new opportunity for this year’s giveaway.
While iPads are great opportunities for access, so are many items that help SMA kids gather another level of independence. The company, AbleNet has a great item called a Powerlink 4. This item works with regular devices like blenders, lights, tv, etc. that normally be turned on and off. With the help of the Powerlink 4 and an access switch can give our SMA kiddos some really incredible independence. So we want to give a few away as well. Check out this LINK to learn more.
Before we get to the details, it is very important to establish how incredibly important it is to thank all of our donors who have helped make this giveaway possible. In particular, I would like to thank Henderson Construction Fabrics Inc. and Dutch Bros. Coffee Sacramento for their generosity. You make a difference for so many in our SMA community, thank you so very much!
Alright, let’s get to the details and get this giveaway underway!
14 + Reasons to Celebrate the Holidays Details:
We will be giving away (14) 7th generation iPads. In addition to the iPad, the giveaway will include a iPad case.
We will also be giving away (4) AbleNet Powerlink 4.
Alright how do you enter?
Super simple, just email us at firstname.lastname@example.org.
Child’s name, type, age
Lastly, ONE ENTRY per child. You can enter for BOTH an iPad and the Powerlink 4, HOWEVER you can only win either an iPad or a Powerlink 4 (you cannot win both). Recipients will be chosen randomly.
Alright let’s DO THIS!
NOW———–Friday, December 13th @ 5pm PST.
Recipients announced Saturday, December 14th @ 12noon PST.