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And Then There Were Eight!From Kate: Our young lady turned 8 on March 25th and I just wanted to share a bit. Getty is eight years old. I have been sitting with this impending realization for the few days before her birthday and I just sit in awe. I try my very best to stay in the present and in the positive as much as I can, but it is hard not to reflect on the day Getty was diagnosed. The tone and the message that flowed from the doctor’s mouth as he explained what Getty’s diagnosis was and how this basically was going to play out for her stings every single time I reflect. As you can probably guess it is ridiculous to stay in that space long for many reasons, mainly because it is essentially wasted energy that I no longer have a reservoir of. However there was something so incredible about that day. When we were driving home from the appointment on July 30, 2010, I never felt defeated. I never felt like this was the end of something. I never felt like this time bomb, which was SMA, would win after the obviously grim prognosis of maybe two years. No, there was something more to this story that I just felt in my heart had more to write. There had to be more. So we went about life after diagnosis. Albeit, different from what we thought the “normal” was going to be. While kids were swallowing, sitting unassisted, crawling, holding their head up, eating, walking, swinging, sitting in a chair, brushing their own teeth, sleeping alone, independently exploring the world, running, jumping, clearly talking and socializing, writing with different materials, hugging, falling, getting dirty, tying their shoes, climbing, and whatever it is that “normal” kids do, that wasn’t our world. It wouldn’t be honest if I told you that not reaching some of those milestones didn’t hurt, because they did, they hurt a lot. But as I have said before, staying in that space offers nothing but pain and serious energy that is better utilized in the present and in the positive. The planet we live on outwardly functions a bit differently. So how do I explain that to someone who doesn’t know much about the life we live? How do I explain the richness that is our life without all of the listed milestones above? Simple, I don’t. I don’t because I don’t need to explain it to anyone. If you knew Getty and you knew our life and the world we live in, you would feel it and you would be convinced of it the moment you met our daughter and the village that adores her. I say it in this manner because I have found that I have spent way too much time thinking I needed to convince people that even with all of the outward challenges, that somehow Getty’s life was not amazing. In the back of my mind when I spoke about Getty and our adventures, I could still see people were hanging onto the notion that without physical abilities, life was not as grand. If you ever needed someone to give you permission to truly be convinced that physical abilities isn’t the core to happiness, now you have heard it. Physical ability doesn’t equate to success, happiness, intelligence, and maybe most important, purpose. Getty has adapted in such genius ways in a world that can sometimes be overlooking of human beings with physical challenges. Having become aware of these possible road blocks over time, you learn to find new ways, I like to call them “plot twists”. 🙂 We go to places that come with accessible spaces and caring people. Getty charms every single person she meets. This non-verbal and physically challenged child can sweep you of your feet and demand attention and understanding. She uses her various tones and shrills to indicate when she is not happy or indifferent, in other words sassy. Getty offers high pitched coos when she is satisfied and content. And the eye roll, oh heavens I can’t leave out, the famous eye roll. Well Getty reserves those for when she thinks your ideas are silly, when she thinks you are embarrassing to her, when she knows she is getting away with murder. 🙂 Books are life! If there is a book in your hand, you must read it immediately or she will yell at you. Getty enjoys reading books with the reader and she has been reading out loud on her own since she started Kindergarten. One morning in her early days of Kindergarten, I opened one of her decoder books from class and she just went for it. Her tones and syllable breaks were on point and we knew she was reading on her own. She is not picky about genre, I mean really a book is a book to her, but if pushed to narrow it down it would definitely be mystery, fantasy, sarcastic, relationships, suspense, adventure, and mischievous characters. 🙂 Getty’s love of music is something to behold. All kinds of music brings smiles and coos. If a book or a movie are not on the current menu, then music is being played. Pop, Jazz, Folk, and honestly anything else offers Getty some contentment and she falls into the sweetest harmonic rest. Dance has come become a perfect compliment to music. She loves watching ballet and our annual trip to see the Nutcracker brings her so much joy and excitement. She enjoys shows like So You Think You Can Dance, The Voice, and World of Dance. We try our best to stay up to date with each of these shows, so you can understand right now how crazy the house is right now since The Voice is back on this Spring. 🙂 For Getty’s birthday this year, we invited our local high school’s jazz ensemble to come and play for her. River City High School’s Jazz Band, Sea Monkey’s are so talented and we were all so “jazzed” to know that our surprise was met with happy coos and smiles. 🙂 Getty loved it. All of our lives were enriched the moment Getty Emelia Storm was born. This bright light has been shining for the past eight years and she just brightens everyone’s lives that are a part of her world. She continues to show the world that any version of life is with purpose. Her grace and grit offers a narrative of what fulfillment looks and feels like. Never in eight years has she ever looked to be defeated or obstructed by this life. She always finds a way around adversity and she always offers the patience of a saint when she has to wait for the rest of the world to get on board. 🙂 Unless you are holding a book in your hand and you haven’t started reading. 🙂 Then rightly so she has no patience for your obvious lack of understanding. 🙂 Happy Birthday Sweet Owl, we love you and we are so excited for what is to come. Keep knocking it out of the park!
Happy 8th Birthday Getty! Can’t thank you enough for the ways you’ve touched our lives. Looking forward to all you have in store in the future. We’re hoping to FINALLY meet you in 2018! Hunter would love to listen to music with you. He loves 70’s Funk 🙂